The Nahoon River mouth from the headland, long beach on one side, harbour on the other, the lagoon catching the late-afternoon light, is the East London image most locals carry. Past 50 here is a quiet coastal-city life: Beacon Bay, Vincent, Selborne, Gonubie up the coast, Nahoon Mouth and Mdantsane on the other side. People settle into the rhythm of the sea and tend to stay.
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The Esplanade promenade is still the standby: long, flat, with cafes at Orient Beach for afterwards. Nahoon Beach gives you a proper walk if the tide's right, and the boardwalk at Nahoon Reef is a quieter alternative. Gonubie's main beach and the river mouth suit anyone wanting the small-town version, and Vincent's coffee scene around the park works for a midweek meet that doesn't have to involve sand.