Soldiers and Sailors Monument standing on Monument Circle, the green spire of Christ Church Cathedral catching afternoon light, downtown Indy spreading out on a bright summer day. The city's quiet civic pride on full display. Singles past 50 here often have careers tied to Lilly, the schools, or the state. However you arrived at this point: late divorce, decades on your own, a recent loss. There's a steady, friendly way of meeting
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For a first walk, Indianapolis members favor Monument Circle or coffee on Mass Ave. The Monon Trail gives you a flat loop and benches when the talking goes long; White River State Park works for a slower afternoon. Broad Ripple's village suits brunch; Fountain Square runs more low-key. Newfields and the gardens at the IMA are good in any season. Carmel's Arts District or Zionsville's Main Street earn a Saturday afternoon.